After a break, there are attitudes that instead of facilitating this situation is exceeded preface pain and suffering…
1. Solve riddles that lead nowhere
Invest a lot of time after a break to understand all the whys, what the other person feels, what the other person thinks is a common but destructive attitude. You can never know all the whys and all the reasons for the behavior of the other. Sometimes we ourselves understand why we do what we do or feel what we feel to guess the other! Resolve enigmas without solution is a bad time spent far from alleviating, only generates more anguish and suffering.
2. Leave your belongings like to come back at any moment
We must distinguish the things that are yours for the things of the other person. Leave things as they were doing it takes longer to understand that the situation has changed. Give a change of scenery to your home after the break. As you are making the effort to see life differently, without that person but full of you, play this effort in your space. Get your things and fill your space your own, fill your life with you. When you take your stuff do not do it to spite, or get rid of them with disdain, that will not benefit. Better keep them fondly in a place away from your eyes, because even now hurt, they are still part of your story and maybe someday you please remember.
3. Revise social networks
For clues, data, and information. Actually the information you receive will be biased and incomplete, so the rest, your imagination will be responsible. This type of behavior just makes your head is full of negative thoughts about your ex, real and imagined, hindering you can disconnect and move forward.
4. Maintain close contact with family and friends
It is normal that in the time that lasted the relationship you have established relationships and friendship with their families and friends, but although they have a lot of affection, after the break they will be caring and supporting his family. At this time, maintaining contact can Complicating the relationship with them and your ex-partner. It is desirable that not lean on your own and you respect their circle.
5. Spend more time with your ex-partner than yourself
Efforts to meet your ex, discuss, make life impossible, try to win him back, knowing what to do, who you are. Thinking about the past and recreate both the good and the bad. Allow this occupy your time prevents your taking the time to productive and good for you and your friends stay with things, do things that you like, distracted, have fun, and start feeling better.